In my last post, I talked about the importance of getting financial advice that’s tailored to you—and, just as importantly, making sure you actually follow it. This time, I want to look at the other side of the coin: the kind of “advice” people receive all the time without even realizing it.
We all get given advice, whether we ask for it or not.
Sometimes it's obvious, like your old schoolmate raving about the cryptocurrency that made them a fortune (or so they think) in a few weeks.
Other times, it’s much more subtle, like a throwaway comment from someone you happen to see as an authority figure.
Here’s a real-world example I come across surprisingly often. A client will say something like:
“I’ve been thinking of switching my medical insurance to Company X.
Last time I was at the doctor’s, the receptionist asked, ‘Are you with Company X?’.
I said no, ‘I’m with Company Y,’
And they just kind of sighed and said, ‘Oh…’ like that was the wrong answer.”
That one moment—a tiny, offhand reaction from someone behind a desk—can lead to someone questioning their whole insurance setup. But here’s the thing: that receptionist probably wasn’t commenting on how good the policy was for you. More likely, they were responding based on how easy it is to deal with that insurer from their side of the desk.
And that matters. Because the easiest company for a receptionist or claims processor to deal with might not be the one that offers the most comprehensive cover, the best policy wording, or the highest claim limits for the things you care about.
That receptionist’s unintentional reaction could have a drastic outcome if it leads you to change providers without first understanding what you’re gaining—or potentially giving up.
The takeaway? Be careful about the advice you absorb passively. Not all of it is wrong, but not all of it is right either. When it comes to important decisions—like insurance, investing, or anything with long-term consequences—make sure you’re basing your choices on facts, not feelings or assumptions. And always speak to someone who has the whole picture in mind.